In a recent JCAC podcast short, Dr. Neil Monette addresses the emotional challenges survivors of narcissistic abuse face, particularly the tendency to blame oneself. He delves into feelings of being drained after prolonged abuse and the barriers to leaving such relationships. Dr. Monette’s support group offers a lifeline, helping survivors rebuild their self-worth and confidence.
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Blaming Yourself: It's common for survivors to blame themselves for ending up in an abusive relationship. Dr. Monette emphasizes that this self-blame is a result of the manipulative dynamics of narcissistic abuse, not a reflection of the survivor's worth.
Feeling Drained After a Prolonged Time: Survivors often feel emotionally and physically exhausted after spending a prolonged period in a narcissistic relationship. This fatigue can make it challenging to see a way out or to muster the energy to leave.
Barrier to Leaving the Relationship: One of the most significant barriers to leaving a narcissistic relationship is the manipulation and control exerted by the narcissist. Survivors may feel trapped, questioning their own judgment and fearing the consequences of leaving.
The Role of Support Groups in Healing: Dr. Monette’s support group is both online and in-person at JCAC's Alpharetta office, creating a safe space where survivors can share experiences and support one another. The podcast underscores the healing power of community and validation in overcoming these challenges.
Creating a Path to Recovery: Healing involves rebuilding self-worth, and Dr. Monette's support group provides the tools and empathy needed to start this journey. Survivors are encouraged to seek support and remember that they deserve better.
Conclusion: If you’re recovering from a narcissistic or emotionally abusive relationship, Dr. Neil Monette’s support group at JCAC is here to help. For more information, call the JCAC intake line at 404-834-2363. You don’t have to face this alone—support is available to help you reclaim your life.
Tune in to the full podcast episode to hear more about Dr. Monette’s insights and the power of community in recovery.
